Broody again at 72: She became the world's oldest mother at 66. Now her little girl's five - and she wants ANOTHER

Charming though they look together, walking hand in hand to school, Adriana Iliescu — at 72 — looks more like her five-year-old daughter Eliza’s slightly doddery great grandparent than her mother.

Heavily lined and with dyed black hair, even she — who in January 2005 became the world’s then oldest mother — admits she looks every one of her years, if not more.
‘I try not to look in the mirror, because I don’t enjoy it,’ says Adriana, a writer and part-time ­university lecturer in Romanian literature, who lives with Eliza in a two-bedroom flat in the ­Romanian capital, Bucharest.

‘The mirror is unkind to women, but if we are talking about my energy then I feel like a young woman. I feel like I’m 27 and when I feel a bit more tired, I feel like I’m 37. I am healthier than women more than half my age.

‘People think they are being funny when they call me granny, but I didn’t have Eliza to make me look younger. I never feel my years.’

Could this be why, in what must surely be a ­triumph of attitude over age, Adriana is now ­defying all her critics by talking about the ­possibility of having another child?
‘Medically, it’s possible,’ she says. ‘I ­understand there are trials going on with a 70-year-old woman in England, so it could be done. I am fine and healthy and I think it would be possible to have another child in the future, but I’m not in a rush at the moment.’

Not in a rush? She’s 72! How much time does she think she has?

But her caution, she insists, has nothing to do with age, exhaustion at caring for a young child or the fear of dying. It is the love she feels for Eliza and their strong bond, that makes ­Adriana ­reluctant to test it with the ­rigours of another baby.

‘I am so close to Eliza, so bonded with her, I’m not sure I’d be able to ­consider having another child if it actually came to it,’ she says.

‘Eliza is energetic and fun — a very happy child. She is everything to me and nothing else counts or matters. The child is mine and that’s all I care about, but medically it is not ­impossible for me to have another child.

‘I don’t smoke and I don’t drink. If I live as long as my parents did, Eliza will be 20 by the time I pass away. I think I still have a lot to give her.’

When I first met Adriana, two years ago, she cut a rather lonely and ­eccentric — if immaculately dressed — figure, mingling with other much younger mothers as she watched Eliza, then aged three, playing on the swings near their ninth-floor flat in a drab, high-rise concrete apartment block.

Back then, she admitted that ­sometimes she was so busy with Eliza it was ‘hard to have the time to even wash my hair’, before adding defiantly: ‘Motherhood is so much more than I hoped for. It is relaxing looking after a child. It’s everything else that’s tiring.’

Eliza is now in school and Adriana believes the challenges of the past few years will continue to ease a little.

She admits it took some adjusting to having a child for the first time at her age and that she was nervous when Eliza started pre-school, aged three.

I was really tense as I wanted her to do well. I’ve invested a lot of energy into the past two years,’ she says. ‘But, Eliza makes friends and plays with them, which gives me a break.’
The result of Adriana’s complete focus on her daughter is that Eliza can already read and write and is academically advanced for her years.
She has friends and is happy, which is all that matters to Adriana, who gives not two hoots for the opinions of others.

A deeply private woman, she doesn’t like to engage in school gate tittle-­tattle and deflects questions from other mothers, curious as to how she copes or what might happen to her daughter if she dies.

Conceived via IVF, courtesy of donated sperm and eggs implanted by a Romanian fertility expert seemingly keen to make medical history, Eliza’s birth continues to divide opinion.

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NHS Surrey to stop providing IVF

NHS Surrey is the latest Primary Care Trusts to stop providing IVF for new patients. Facing a £125 million budget deficit this year, the trust has decided to suspend all new courses of the treatment, although women nearing 40 will be considered and ongoing treatments will be continued. Previously it funded up to two full cycles of IVF per couple, if the woman was aged between 23 and 39.

'By stopping doing things which aren't clinically necessary, we can safeguard and continue to do what's clinically essential or urgent, such as cancer referrals and life-threatening trauma cases in A&E', said Dr John Omany, the trust's medical director. Other treatments to be discontinued include acupuncture, spinal epidural injections for chronic back pain and some cosmetic procedures - such as those for male baldness, facial blushing and removing tattoos.

The decision was taken after the trust's board met to discuss 'serious financial challenges'. Treatments were categorised under a 'Fast, Steady, Stop' programme - those under 'Fast' are to be provided immediately, with those under 'Steady' to be available in turn and on time. 'Stop' treatments will not be provided at all. 'If you don't need it the NHS won't pay for it', said the board. The IVF policy is set to be reviewed next November.

The cuts come after several other trusts stopped offering new cycles of IVF. A recent survey conducted by Pulse magazine revealed nine out of the 124 trusts who participated in the survey had not funded treatment since September 2008, despite the government pledging to end the 'postcode lottery' when launching the 2004 NICE guidelines. Since then NHS West Kent has also suspended all non-urgent IVF until April 2011. The guidelines recommend the NHS should provide up to three full cycles of IVF for eligible patients.

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American soldier uses internet to see birth of his baby girl

A Watertown soldier, who is stationed overseas, didn’t let distance get in the way of seeing his baby girl's birth, thanks to the Internet.

“The laptop was right by my side for most of it,” said Vera Kurek, the mother.

Vera’s husband Peter, who is stationed in Kuwait, was not missing the birth of his 7pound baby girl, Rose Marie.

With 7,000 miles separating Vera and Peter, both the military and the Mount Auburn Hospital were able to hook the couple up live - they had audio and video, and were ready to deliver a baby.

“I did my normal joking around. I told her if she wanted I could get a bag of popcorn and just sit here and watch the show,” said Peter Kurek, the father.

Even though Peter was just sitting in his bunk, that is not at all what this First Lieutenant did.

“He was coaching me through everything and helping me breath,” said Vera Kurek.

“I breathed loud into my microphone so she could hear the rhythm of my breathing,” said Peter Kurek.

This went on for some time, but then the moment came for Vera to deliver.

“Towards the end my laptop got pushed back so he could see Rose Marie being born,” said Vera Kurek.

“I told her how great she was doing, and how brave and strong she was, how much I loved her and how much I was going to love this baby. I think it was just three pushes and Rose was in the world,” said Peter Kurek.

Communicating over the internet is the way things will remain for the couple. Peter said there is no set date for his next leave, but he said it should be before his little girl is walking.

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The botched epidurals making women terrified of giving birth: Is this the real reason for soaring Caesareans?

After 18 hours in labour with her first baby, Sarah Sergeant was exhausted and decided she needed an epidural to relieve the ­agonising pain.

An epidural is a form of anaesthetic administered through a tiny tube in the small of your back — it works by ­numbing the nerves so you no longer feel the pain of labour contractions. ­
Epidurals are given to around a third of women during childbirth and are a standard procedure.

But when Sarah’s anaesthetist arrived, it took him at least four attempts to get the needle in the right place in her spine.

Even then the epidural didn’t work, ­leaving Sarah, now 37, from Ashtead, ­Surrey, still able to feel the contractions.

Two hours later, with the birth not ­progressing as it should, Sarah was told she needed an emergency Caesarean section to deliver her baby.

In theatre, doctors tried three times to top up the epidural, but when the ­surgeon made the first incision in her abdomen, Sarah was still able to feel it and she was in terrible pain. She had to undergo a general anaesthetic and was therefore unconscious when her daughter, Molly, was born.

Each year around 150,000 women — a quarter of new mothers — don’t get the pain relief they need during labour, according to the Birth Trauma Association.

Often this is linked to a failed epidural, with doctors experiencing difficulty administering them. This can trigger an excruciating headache as well as much anxiety and unnecessary pain — there is also the longer term emotional impact.

Indeed, campaigners believe the failure of epidurals is responsible in part for soaring Caesarean rates.

Almost three times more babies are born by Caesarean section compared with 30 years ago.

Last week, midwives revealed that expectant mothers are increasingly demanding a surgical birth second time around because their first birth was so traumatic they have been left afraid to give birth naturally.

Some maternity units have seen the number requesting the ­procedure increase by 40 per cent in the past year alone.

Meanwhile, other mothers have been left so traumatised by their childbirth experience that they put off or even abandon plans to increase their family.
There’s no doubt this fear can be linked to failed pain relief. So why do epidurals go wrong?

It is a combination of lack of expertise, timing and anatomical differences in patients, explains Dr Deirdre Guerin, lead consultant in obstetric anaesthesia at London’s private Portland Hospital.

‘The most important factor in whether an epidural is successful or not is the level of expertise of the anaesthetist,’ says Dr Guerin.

‘In many NHS hospitals, it is ­junior anaesthetists administering an epidural rather than specialist obstetric anaesthetists — the ­specialists tend to work in the operating theatres.’

To administer an epidural, the anaesthetist has to get the woman to lie on her side with her knees drawn up, or sit on a bed or chair and lean forward. The anaesthetist then uses the bony joints in the back as a guide to where to insert the needle.

Anaesthetic is injected into the space around the spinal cord, using a fine, ­hollow tube known as a catheter inserted into the lower back. The anaesthetic should start working within five to ten minutes (and lasts two to four hours, although it can be topped up during labour).

Doing the procedure by feeling for the right spot (performing it ‘blind’, as it were) results in ­difficulties — leading to more than one attempt to insert the drug in a quarter of cases, according to research by Dr Graeme McLeod, a consultant anaesthetist at Ninewells Hospital Medical School, Dundee.

However, it’s not just specialist expertise that matters: even the most experienced anaesthetists can have problems inserting an epidural if the woman doesn’t keep still because of the pain she’s in.

‘Women, particularly those ­having their first baby, sometimes leave it too long to have an ­epidural or are encouraged not to have one in case it slows down labour,’ Dr Guerin says.

‘And if they can’t keep still while it’s being given, there is a risk of them having a dural tap, where the needle punctures the dura membrane close to the ­spinal cord, causing a ferocious headache.’

Doctors can also find it very ­difficult to accurately insert an epidural if the patient is obese — the usual bony signposts in the back aren’t visible (more than 15 per cent of women are obese at their first antenatal appointment, according to research).
Staffing shortages which prevent midwives from holding one-to-one antenatal sessions with mothers to allay concerns is another factor in the rise in numbers asking for a Caesarean, says Sue McDonald, of the Royal College of Midwives.

‘But there is little doubt that if a woman doesn’t have a successful epidural, it can impact on whether she chooses a Caesarean section in subsequent pregnancies.’

Sarah Sergeant believes she would not have needed a Caesarean section if her epidural had been administered properly. The operation was carried out under general anaesthetic to deliver daughter Molly, now four.

‘The epidural wasn’t in the right place, so topping it up was a waste of time,’ she says.
‘If the epidural had worked, I may have relaxed more. I am convinced I wouldn’t have needed a Caesarean and a general ­anaesthetic, and I wouldn’t have missed the birth of my first child.’

However, there is hope new technology will end such an experience. Instead of anaesthetists having to guess the right place in the spine, high-resolution ultrasound images means they can guide the needle to the precise spot.

Research in Canada shows­ successful insertion rate for epidurals when using such equipment increases to 91.8 per cent. Dr McLeod’s hospital is the first in the UK to use a form of the new technology developed by Zonare.

‘This is a delicate and tricky procedure, as the space in the spinal column varies from woman to woman,’ says Dr McLeod.

‘Why do this blind when there is equipment available to make pain ­control 91.8 per cent effective?’

Dr Guerin agrees the machines can guide doctors, but says they don’t replace clinical expertise.

Meanwhile, despite her traumatic first delivery, Sarah had a second child, Henry, in 2008, with an epidural that worked.

‘I wasn’t worried second time around, but I was determined not to have a Caesarean. I had an ­epidural that worked, so I couldn’t feel anything. Now I know what it should feel like and the difference it can make,’ she says.

‘Anything that ensures women get the pain relief they want in labour has got to be a good thing.’


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The pope's reversal on condom use

The pontiff has softened his stance on condom use in the war against AIDS — but does that mean the Vatican is easing opposition to birth control?

To date, Pope Benedict XVI's stance has been that condoms could be making the AIDS epidemic worse by encouraging casual sex. Now, in a potentially significant shift, the pope has told a German interviewer that condom use by certain people, such as male prostitutes, could be morally justified as a way to reduce the risk of infection. Vatican officials say there's nothing "revolutionary" about the remarks, but church historians disagree. Is the pope really easing Catholic opposition to condom use?

"Benedict's so-called condom concession was not a huge one," says Howard Chua-Eoan at Time. He is merely saying that male prostitutes — whose actions the church, of course, condemns — should use condoms to prevent HIV, because making such a conscious choice at least constitutes a step out of darkness and toward morality. But the pope still proscribes using condoms as birth control.

Conservative Catholics may not like it, says Damian Thompson at Britain's Telegraph, but the Holy Father is now on record saying that using a condom is "a lesser evil than the transmission of the virus." Sure, Pope Benedict says that only applies in extreme cases, such as male prostitution. But, come on, the same "lesser-of-two-evils argument" obviously applies to sex between infected men and women.

Maybe allowing condoms only for homosexual sex — which can't produce a baby — isn't a big change in Vatican policy, says Bryan Cones at U.S. Catholic, but "anyone who wants to tame the HIV epidemic will be happy to hear this news." Catholic agencies provide some 30 percent of medical care in developing parts of the world. Now that Pope Benedict has opened the door to using condoms solely in the name of fighting AIDS, these groups "will be freer to employ the ABC model (abstinence, being faithful, condoms) that many see as the gold standard."

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Genetic infertility treated successfully at Mumbai hospital

A woman with a rare genetic disorder 'Robertsonian Translocation', resulting in infertility, has delivered a healthy baby girl at the Jaslok Hospital and Research Center.

"With this first Invitro fertilisation (IVF) using pre-implantation genetic diagnosis (PGD), India joins a handful of countries that have accomplished successful management of this disorder," Dr Firuza Parikh, Director, Assisted Reproduction and Genetics at Jaslok and former Professor at the Yale University School of Medicine, USA, said.

The baby girl was delivered yesterday at city's Jaslok hospital, Parikh said adding that this case report was published as a cover article in the peer reviewed 'Journal of Prenatal Diagnosis and Therapy' (January- June 2010).

Attributing the success to her team of 40 individuals particularly Dr Prochi Madon, Dr Arundhati Athalye, Mr Nandkishor Naik and Dattatray Naik, Parikh explained, "We are born with 46 chromosomes which occur in pairs. Each chromosome of a pair is a mirror image of the other. Although this harmony ismaintained in nature, an occasional slip results in a translocation."

"As the name suggests, a segment or an arm of one chromosome transports itself onto another chromosome and one such rearrangement is called a RobertsonianTranslocation after the American geneticist Dr W Robertson," she said.

"The rearrangement can occur in males and females who do not manifest any clinical symptoms. The problem manifests when the couple tries to conceive," Parikh said.

"An embryo derives half its chromosomes from the father and half from the mother. Hence if the chromosome with extra genetic material goes into the embryo, the amount of genetic material of that chromosome triples resulting in miscarriage or mental retardation," the In-vitro fertilization (IVF) expert said.

The embryos were screened using Pre-implantation Genetic Diagnosis (PGD).

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Few Singaporean sperm donors due to fear of incest

The recent case of the in-vitro fertilisation (IVF) treatment mix-up at Thomson Fertility Centre cast the spotlight on assisted reproductive treatments and their challenges in Singapore.

One major challenge is the lack of sperm donors. A recent report in The Straits Times revealed that there have been only eight sperm donors at Singapore General Hospital in the past five years.

Professor P.C. Wong from National University Hospital was quoted in the same article as saying that for every sperm donation in Singapore, there would be about eight couples who need it.


He says the reason for the shortage of sperm donors could be because Singaporeans are not altruistic enough.

There is no monetary gain from being a sperm donor. Moreover, the process of donating sperm is a lot more tedious than most imagine, requiring interviews and multiple medical checkups and tests.

However, a report in Shin Min Daily yesterday highlighted another reason - many men are worried that donating sperm to another couple might result in incest among their offspring in future.

An informal survey by AsiaOne showed that this was indeed a concern among Singaporean men.

"Singapore is so small - there's a high chance that your biological child might meet your own children in future," noted a civil servant in his thirties, who declined to be named. "What if they fall in love and get married, not knowing that they are actually half-siblings?"

This fear of incest, or consanguinity (the marriage of close relatives), seems especially real, given Singapore's small size. However, doctors have described this in previous news reports as only a 'remote possibility'.

Another respondent said he felt that IVF was 'unnatural'. He points out that there are other options for childless couples, such as adoption, but also says that a couple has the right to seek fertility treatment, just as men have the right to choose not to be sperm donors if they are not comfortable with the idea.

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Scotland has just 26 sperm donors with NHS forced to bring in supplies from London

THERE are just 26 sperm donors left in Scotland five years after the right to remain anonymous was removed.

NHS boards are being forced to bring in supplies from London to meet demand here.

Now there are calls for a review of the system to help encourage more men to register.

Donation rates have dropped dramatically since 2005, when donors' rights to anonymity were removed, meaning children conceived could contact them 18 years later.

Only 13 joined the register last year, with NHS Fife and NHS Lothian in particular struggling to meet demand.

Spire Shawfair Park hospital in Danderhall, Edinburgh, have launched an urgent appeal for donors. They have had only 10 volunters since opening in March, forcing them to get samples from the London Fertility Clinic.

Jaime Oswald, embryologist at the hospital, called for changes to the expenses system. She added: "What scares a lot of people away is that in 18 years, you get a knock on the door."

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Scared to give birth - tocophobia on the rise in the UK

A surge in cases of birth trauma being reported in the UK, are causing scared mothers to abandon plans for another baby as Tocophobia rates rise.

It has often been said that if women fully remember the trials and agony of a first labor, they would never have a second child. Apparently, this is exactly what is occurring in the UK right now. On Nov. 14, 2010, the British newspaper The Guardian, reported that a surge in birth trauma incidents is causing first-time mothers to dread ever going through the process again. Tocophobia, or the fear of childbirth, is on the rise. Why?

Traumatic first births are elevating cesarean requests by second-time mothers
According to The Guardian's, Denis Campbell, Britain's National Health Service, (NHS), is being forced to step in to deal with surging requests for cesarean sections by pregnant mother's terrified of the labor process, after enduring a traumatic first birth. Campbell writes in, "Too Scared to Push: Big Rise Reported in Birth Trauma," that in one area hospital, Liverpool's Women's Hospital, "The number of mothers who have asked for an elective caesarean with their forthcoming child, because they suffered trauma the last time, has risen 40%."

There are a number of factors seen as contributors to tocophobia but common sense must ask, why are first-births so traumatic in the first place? One entity under fire is the NHS itself, whose budget cuts have led to a serious deficit in the availability of qualified midwives. On Dec. 16, 2009, Verena Burns of The Daily Mail, reported the story of a former midwife spilling the beans on a standard shift in one of Britain's labor and delivery unit's


"Midwives in Meltdown," was a shocking read that told how a woman in labor, was virtually ignored throughout the entire labor process because her designated midwife, was too overloaded with patients. Unfortunately, wrote Burns, this was just one of several questionable practices that occurred on a regular basis such as mothers-to-be who were drugged to the max.

"Drugs keep the mother nice and quiet," the midwife told Burns, "which, of course, suits staff," too overwhelmed to be effective.

Consider these recent childbirth horror stories
On Sep. 29, 2010, The Daily Mail reported that Britain's NHS had formerly apologized to a mother whose baby was severely damaged in a forceps delivery. The mother's obstetrician had pulled on the baby so hard, that the mother was pulled down the birthing table. Furthermore, reported Jane Feinmann in "Forceps Left this boy Brain Damaged," when the baby did finally emerge, one of his eyeballs rested on his cheek and he endured a fractured skull and bleeding in the brain.


Jennifer Block of Time Magazine, reported on Mar. 12, 2010, that Amnesty International had released a report called "Deadly Delivery." Amnesty noted in this report that too many mothers were losing their lives in the US when having babies. Block's article, "Too Many Women Dying in U.S. While Having Babies," says that Amnesty claims, "Every day in the U.S., more than two women die of pregnancy-related causes, with the maternal mortality ratio doubling from 6.6 deaths per 100,000 births in 1987 to 13.3 deaths per 100,000 births in 2006."

Is Tocophobia an under-reported condition?

There are no official current statistics on tocophobia rates in the US. Are these phobia rates naturally low in the US or are they going unreported? Tocophobia as a medical condition, is not well documented online by any reputable medical authority either. Yet, unsurprisingly, the condition can be found as a popular topic between mothers on pregnancy forums.

With the small amount of information able to gleaned, tocophobia appears to be downplayed as something easily overcome; transient in nature and according to the website, Wrongdiagnosis.com, classified, "An exaggerated or irrational fear of childbirth." Considering the current state of affairs coupled with Amnesty's report, can tacophobia remain labeled as irrational, when due to a traumatic first birth experience, requests for c-sections by mothers at a UK hospital, jumped a staggering 40-percent?


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Cutting umbilical cord too soon 'could harm baby'

Doctors and midwives should stop clamping babies umbilical cords immediately after birth and wait for a few minutes instead, according to experts.

They said waiting for three minutes could allow more blood to flow to the baby and reduce the risk of iron deficiency and anaemia in newborns.

Retired consultant obstetrician, Dr David Hutchen, said both the World Health Organisation and the International Federation of Gynaecology and Obstetrics advised doctors to refrain from early cord clamping.
However, the National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence (NICE) still advocates active management, which includes early clamping and cutting of the cord. British doctors are therefore reluctant to change their practices.

Writing in the British Medical Journal, Dr Hutchon said early cord clamping 'has become the accepted norm so much so that delaying clamping is generally considered a new or unproved intervention.'

Yet he argues that 'applying a clamp to the cord is clearly an intervention, having the greatest effect when it is done quickly after birth.'

The doctor who used to work at Memorial Hospital in Darlington, said if the need for early cord clamping was removed from NICE's guideline, 'there could be an overnight change in practice.'

He concluded: 'Clamping the functioning umbilical cord at birth is an unproven intervention.

'Lack of awareness of current evidence, pragmatism, and conflicting guidelines are all preventing change. To prevent further injury to babies we would be better to rush to change.'

A spokeswoman from NICE said they would be reviewing their current guidelines on treating women in labour early next year.


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'Sperminator' who donates sperm by having sex for just 17 pounds!

Meet John McManus, a 'sperminator' who is ready to donate his sperm to childless mothers for just 17 pounds - the only catch is that he insists on the 'natural impregnation'.

McManus, 33, from Galway, Ireland, insists on impregnating "the natural way" as he finds artificial insemination "too weird".

His services are targeted at those who can't afford IVF.

McManus tells potential clients he advises plenty of "hugging, touching, kissing and foreplay" before the act, so the climax-for-cash seems completely natural, reports The Sun.

When asked to explain the process, John wrote, "Ideally we would try three days per month in a row - the two days before you ovulate, and the day itself. Ideally we would try twice per day. The more sperm you have inside you, the better chance of you getting pregnant."

"I will need a week's notice before you want to try. This is so that I can save up my sperm before the first donation," he added.

McManus assures clients that he is STD-free too.

"I was last STD tested in March. Last year I also had three STD tests which all came back negative. I take my sexual health very seriously."

McManus told how he initially became a donor in 2007 because of a sperm shortage in the UK.

"I watched a documentary about an infertile couple who could not afford IVF and I felt I should do something. Creating a life is the most special thing you can do. It is the greatest gift you can give," he said.

"I don't go around doing this all the time. Women see my ad and if they are looking for a donor they get in touch. Once the baby is born I don't want any contact. I just go on with my life and you go on with yours."

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Parisian baby caught by passerby after falling from seventh-floor apartment: report

An 18-month-old boy in Paris had an amazing escape after falling seven floors and bouncing off a cafe awning into the arms of a passerby, witnesses said Tuesday.

"My son saw a little boy on a balcony. He had gone right outside the railing ... I said to myself I mustn't miss him," the toddler's savior, local doctor Philippe Bensignor, told AFP, recounting Monday's drama.

"I had time to move from side to side to get in the right position," he added. "The little boy was fine. He cried a little bit but calmed down straightaway."

An official involved in investigating the incident said the boy had been left alone in the family apartment in northern Paris with his sister by their parents, who were taken into custody afterwards.

"It's a real miracle," said the cafe's barman, who gave his name as Gaby, pointing to a small tear in the awning where the toddler bounced off.

"We were closed yesterday but the mechanical device for closing the awning wasn't working."


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Know your baby’s sex at just 7 weeks pregnant

A new gender test that is accurate by week seven of pregnancy has been developed. The blood test, which causes no harm to the developing foetus and costs £300, checks for male Y-chromosomes in the mum’s blood. If these are found, the foetus is male and if not, female.

The test is reportedly already available in the US, Israel and some European countries, but there have been concerns that an early gender test may raise abortion rates.

“The easier it is to find out the sex of the child, the earlier a woman can decide to take action,” said Josephine Quintavalle, a pro-life campaigner. “There have long been problems of gendercide in countries such as India and China where female foetuses are terminated. This test could encourage it.”

The team behind the discovery have suggested its use could help women with genetic conditions affecting a particular sex make decisions about their pregnancy. Experts have also claimed that there is no evidence that women in the UK are likely to abort a particular sex.

The British Pregnancy Advisory Service said, “At BPAS we believe women can be trusted to make the ethical decisions that are right for them. Good laws allow women to do this.”

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10-year-old gives birth in Spain

Authorities in Spain are trying to decide what to do with a 10-year-old girl and the baby she gave birth to last week, admitting they had never before encountered such a young mother.

The girl gave birth in a hospital in the southern city of Jerez on 26 October, though the case only came to light today. Doctors remarked that both the girl and her mother, who accompanied her to the hospital, seemed calm about the birth.

The young mother was allowed home at the weekend with the healthy 2.9kg (6.4lb) baby, whose father was reported to be an under-age boy.

"The important thing is that both the baby and the mother should be cared for properly," said Micaela Navarro, head of the health service in the region of Andalucía.

"If that is the case, then they can stay with their family without any problem. That is what we are checking on at the moment. She might be the mother, but she is herself a minor," she added.

Navarro did not explain why the checks had not been carried out earlier.

The Diario de Sevilla newspaper reported that, despite the age of the mother, a caesarean had not been necessary.

But doctors warned that pregnancies carried health risks for very young girls. "At a young age your bones are not even fully formed," said Dr Adolfo López Gómez of Seville's Sagrado Corazón hospital.

"The high level of hormonal activity caused by a pregnancy can provoke problems."

Andalucía had 177 children born to girls who were 14 or under in 2008 – though no one can recall a case involving a 10-year-old.

Doctors remarked that the baby was welcomed into the new family, who said that childbirth at a young age was not abnormal in their native Romania, according to the local Diario de Jerez newspaper.

Spain allows marriage, where a judge deems there are exceptional circumstances, at 14 years old.

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Why do men donate sperm?

It takes just minutes, but the emotional consequences of donating sperm can last for years. So what makes men do it?

Sperm is a hot commodity in 21st-century Britain. Women will travel miles to find it and pay thousands to access it. Obtaining a donation from the European Sperm Bank – which is to say pursuing the standard, NHS-endorsed option of licensed donation – can cost upwards of £2,500. That's before diagnostic testing, treatment costs, and "pregnancy slot" bookings are taken into account. That's £2,500 for three, thumb-sized vials of frozen semen – and it might not be enough.


Treatment could be unsuccessful, at least the first time around. It might be a one-off, or it might a recurring problem. It might not even be possible to buy a donation. Demand for those frozen vials dwarfs availability, and the result is a system in which eligibility is strictly regulated.


Mark Jackson first learned of the sperm shortage six years ago. Sitting at his computer, reading news of the Boxing Day tsunami, he was made aware of his own mortality. “I realised that you could be wiped off the earth without having left any impact,” he reflects. “My eye was caught by a ticker running across the screen. It said that there was a shortage of gamete donations. I didn’t even know what that was, but I clicked on the link. I realised that maybe I could make a difference after all.”


Since then, his sperm has been used to “help” two families and Jackson has become a trustee of the National Gamete Donation Trust (NGDT). He is one of almost 500 registered donors in the UK, sharing his sperm via the 138 licensed clinics around the country. In 2005, when British law changed to allow donors’ offspring to learn, on turning 18, the identity of their father, that number was widely predicted to drop off. Suddenly, the prospect was raised of biological sons or daughters rocking up on donors’ doorsteps. It’s a scenario soon to be played out on the big screen, thanks to US comedy The Kids Are All Right, and it would be enough – sceptics reasoned – to turn many men off their trips to the fertility clinic.

In fact, the opposite has happened: thanks to several high-profile recruitment drives, numbers have increased: from 224 newly registered donors in 2004 to 396 in 2008. In theory, at least, this should be enough to satisfy demand, since each donor can “enable” up to 10 families. But it hasn’t done so.


The mismatch is so great that last week Laura Witjens, NGDT chairwoman, called for donors to be paid. At present, they are awarded a maximum of £250 in expenses and lost wages.

Spending by individual clinics on awareness raising, recruitment drives, and medical testing add to the cost of making sperm available for donation. All things considered, clinics, according to Infertility Network UK, fork out somewhere in the region of £5,000 per donor.


If, says Witjens, they were to add payment into the mix, clinics would be in a position to attract more donors, thus satisfying demand.


Yet it’s not obvious that a lack of donors is the problem, nor that financial incentives would provide a solution.


Earlier this year the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA) discovered that the average donor was enabling just 1.5 families, far fewer than then legal limit of 10. Given that some 80 per cent of donors agree to the maximum amount, something is clearly amiss.


The answer lies with the clinics. Clinics recruit donors individually, and work through the process of donation – from preliminary tests to repayment of expenses – separately. Frequently, unused sperm isn’t shared with other clinics, and much of it goes to waste. “It’s something we are trying to address,” confirms a spokesman for the HFEA. “At the end of the day, we can’t force clinics to share their sperm.” Until the system is sorted out, the only option is to recruit more donors. Or, if you are a woman in search of sperm, to head, as it were, off-piste, and wade into the murky world of unlicensed private donation.


Ed Houben of the Netherlands has been donating sperm since 1999, and doing so privately since 2002. He is Europe’s most prolific sperm donor. Head to his website and you are directed towards an upbeat missive in which he explains his willingness to offer “a good sperm cell” to needy couples around the world. He has fathered some 70 children, several in his home country, and others as far flung as Australia, Canada and Israel. At present, he has another eight on the way.


Like Jackson, he was initially drawn to donation by the desire to make a difference, to leave his mark on the world. “I didn’t want to look back and not to have accomplished anything,” he says. “So I went to a clinic near my home and gave sperm.”


His move towards private donation was motivated, in part, by the restrictive policies incumbent in many a hospital. “Because of the donor shortage, clinics were less likely to help homosexual couples or single women. I was raised by a single mother and I’ve seen a lot of unhappy heterosexual couples. Maybe two mothers is better.”


Houben is the friendly face of private donation. Kindly and businesslike, he takes his role seriously, hosting annual get-togethers for his offspring. Women come to him secure in the knowledge that theirs will be a safe, reliable experience; of the dozens who have approached him, only a few have been turned down. “The most important thing to me is that the child has the best possible chance of a normal, happy life.” Of course, he isn’t alone in his integrity: many donors recruited privately are equally altruistic, going on to help couples in the most desperate of situations.


However, this so-called “grey market” of private donation can be a tricky place, because it is unwieldy and unregulated. Websites offering to introduce sperm and egg abound in listings classified as for the family-minded.


While most – such as feelingbroody.com and co-parentmatch.com – recommend that women insist on medical checks before accepting a donation, there is, ultimately, a limit to what they can do. “I have met people who donated without any checks,” Houben reflects with a sigh. “That’s playing Russian roulette.”


It’s not simply a matter of health. As the HFEA warns, without a clinic to mediate, “the details of parenthood can become problematic”. Indeed, private donors have no guarantee of their protection from parental duties. Three years ago, in the first case of its kind, Britain’s Child Support Agency forced a 37-year-old fireman who had provided sperm to a lesbian couple to contribute to the child’s maintenance. In that instance, the pregnancy was a result of artificial insemination. Natural insemination, when the mother conceives through sexual intercourse with the donor, only further muddies the waters.


Natural insemination, or NI, is more common than might be expected. “I would never have mentioned it,” says Houben. “But then people began asking. I was amazed at first, but there are people who find artificial insemination lacking in intimacy. For many, NI is the closest they get to being normal.”


Back in London, donors for licensed, artificial insemination are in high demand. “We advertise in the London papers,” explains Neeta Bala, donor bank coordinator at the London Fertility Centre. “We’re hoping to go into men’s magazines soon too, and we’ve done other papers and in college guides.” Their hit rate is around two donors per month – more than the average clinic, but far fewer than they would like. “It’s less than we need. We have peaks and troughs.”


Oddly, for such a prominent issue, the act of donation is rather opaque. What, one wonders, goes on within the hushed confines of the donation room?


For those in need of illumination – and it’s not simply a case of five minutes with some cut-price pornography – the process goes something like this. On calling the clinic, potential donors are talked through their decision by an embryologist. Then, if everyone is happy to proceed, a “semen assessment appointment”, is made. The donor’s sperm is sampled, frozen and cultivated to assess its longevity. Their blood, meanwhile, is tested for disease and genetic disorder. If both results come through clear, the man in question will be asked to return for between six and eight visits, producing samples every time.


Throughout the process, alcohol and sex will be strictly regulated and, afterwards, donors are asked to attend a counselling session. Six months after the final appointment, a second blood test is taken. Finally, the sperm is banked. The whole thing takes around eight months.


Happily, part of the enigma surrounding donation may be about to evaporate, thanks in part to a new book by Greg Wolfe. How to Make Love to a Plastic Cup: A Guy’s Guide to the World of Infertility explains in detail the comings and goings of gamete giving. From donation-room etiquette (chapter title: “Sperm-a-lot”) to the inevitable awkwardness of the clinic waiting room, it offers a wry, occasionally laugh-out-loud, briefing.


“Donation has become normal to me now,” says Jackson. “It’s part of my life.” As things stand, he knows nothing of the people his sperm has created. If they choose to look him up one day, he says, he’ll be happy to meet them: “I don’t have strong feelings. It would be up to them.”


For the time being, he has three children at home to take care of: a toddler, a five-month-old baby, and his girlfriend’s son from a previous marriage. Houben, meanwhile, continues to see those of his offspring who want to maintain contact. As for the future of his sperm, he remains uncertain. “Who knows how long I’ll continue? But whatever happens, I know I can look back on many happy families that I’ve helped create.”

For more on this story follow the link: http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/features/why-do-men-donate-sperm-2116290.html

PureAdam in the news - I'll risk my own family to start ten others

Packing my bags for the 150-mile round trip to the sperm donation clinic in Manchester, my partner Suzanne, 32, always gets tetchy.

Pacing around, banging doors and giving me the silent treatment, she'll often demand that I bath and put Lewis, our 20- month-old son, to bed, probably hoping that by looking into his eyes I'll see the error of my ways.

Next morning the silences and door banging will continue, invariably followed by the plea: 'How do we know this won't come back to bite us?' or, 'What about Lewis?'
I've considered questions like these a lot since I started donating sperm five years ago, and my concerns have been highlighted by the recent film, The Kids Are All Right, in which Julianne Moore and Annette Bening play a lesbian couple who have children via a sperm donor.

One of the youngsters tracks him down, with unforeseen consequences for their relationship. But despite the obvious dilemmas, the feeling that I'm helping someone create a loving family drives me on.

The 2004 tsunami made me think about this. Watching the news and seeing how many people were killed, I suddenly felt insignificant, as though nothing I could do could ever make a difference.
Perhaps it was fate, but at the same time I saw another news item flash across the top of the screen, about how the laws surrounding anonymous sperm donation were changing. The story explained that from then on, children born to sperm donors would be allowed to contact their biological father if they wished.

This led to huge donor shortages and rising demand for fertility treatments.
It really struck a chord with me – that behind the faceless headlines, thousands of people were living lives that could easily be made better if people like me gave a tiny fraction of their time and did something. I read all I could about donating and booked an appointment at a clinic.
It didn't bother me that an 18-year-old might come knocking on my door to find me in the future. If anything, I'd be interested to know how they'd got on, but the choice would be entirely theirs.

But this is what upsets Suzanne. She wants to protect Lewis from any future problems.

She's worried that half-brothers and sisters will turn up demanding to be part of our family. I've talked with countless families who've been through similar situations unscathed, and I know from my research that if you tell your child as early as possible, they can handle it easily – and even like the idea.
Lewis is obviously still too young to talk to about this but, as with all my friends and family, I'm just going to be honest and open – and proud – about it, and tell him as soon as I think he's ready to understand.
When I first started donating, I was single and the chances of me being accepted as a donor were less than one in 20.

Apparently, 85 per cent of first-timers have sperm that cannot survive the freezing process, while others have sexually transmitted infections or genetic problems like cystic fibrosis.

But my sperm was successfully collected, and over the next few months I made several trips to the clinic, so what had originally been a whim turned into a pretty long-term commitment. I now go about once a month. It means a lot of time off work – I'm a railway signalman – but I don't begrudge it. Though I'm not paid to donate, I receive £15 in expenses.

By law I can help only ten families in total – that quota is higher in other countries – but I'd like to be help as many people as I can, so I'll keep going for as long as I'm allowed. I know there are now two children out there who I've helped to create.

But while I know the number and the sex, I have no legal right to any other details, just like I have no legal responsibility for them at any time in the future. Unless they choose to get my contact details when they're 18 and find me, that's all I'll ever know. You might expect me to look at children in the street and wonder if they are 'mine', but considering how many hundreds of people I see every day, that would be a silly waste of time and energy.

I'm not ruling out the possibility of ever meeting them, or my children ever meeting their halfbrothers and sisters, I'm just living in the real world and getting on with my life.

Lewis is around the same age as the stepchildren I've helped create. So when he first starts to read or ride a bike, say, thoughts of how those other children are doing will cross my mind – but only fleetingly.
There's also the absolutely tiny chance they could even become boyfriend and girlfriend when they're older, but the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority is setting up a new 'Donor Sibling Link' that will allow any donor-conceived children to find out more about their siblings when they're 18, on top of having access to my contact information. But that doesn't stop Suzanne worrying.
We met three years ago and at first she was fine about what I was doing. She had an eight-yearold son from a previous relationship and had even been for fertility treatment with her then partner, so she sympathised.

But when we had Lewis, she became protective and cautious about my donating sperm. We both know several men who've had vasectomies and deeply regret their decision, and they openly say what a great thing it is that I'm doing.

Then a lesbian friend heard me talking about donating a year or so ago, and for a while I was trying to help her conceive by donating my sperm to the clinic she was attending – but since then she's managed to conceive a baby naturally.

Friends who know Suzanne have an issue about my donating, asking how our relationship can withstand it, and my answer is that she and I both know I won't change – we simply can't let it be a deal-breaker.
When I arrive home from the clinic each time, thankfully Suzanne has usually calmed down and is glad to see me again – although we both know we'll only go through the same palaver a month or two later. But the knowledge that I'm doing something incredibly positive in my life means that I'll carry on doing it for as long as I can.

Mark donated though www.pureadam.com

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On fertile ground in hunt for sperm donor dad

IT IS a uniquely 21st century story.

An international fertility expert from Sheffield has used his knowledge and experience to help produce an intriguing documentary about a sperm donor-conceived child's search for her biological father.

The Star's health reporter Sarah Dunn found out more about the film - being screened here this weekend as part of the city's acclaimed Doc/Fest.

The tale of one determined young woman - conceived using a sperm donor and raised by two mums in Pennsylvania - as she trawls the United States in search of her father, known to her only as Donor 150.

Along the way, 20-year-old JoEllen discovers no fewer than 12 half-siblings who are scattered across the States - the first one tracked down in the Big Apple, where the New York Times picks up her story.

The article also falls into the hands of Jeffrey Harrison, who is living alone with four dogs and a pigeon in a broken-down motorhome in a Venice Beach car park.

In the 1980s, Jeffrey supplemented his meagre income by becoming a sperm donor at California Cryobank - where his number was Donor 150.

The fascinating documentary, which airs at The Showroom cinema this Friday and Saturday, follows JoEllen and her siblings on their journey to find and meet Jeffrey.

And, while it is funny, moving and sensitive, Dr Allan Pacey says he hopes it will be more than just a film people turn up to watch and chat briefly about afterwards.

The senior lecturer in andrology at The University of Sheffield said he wanted the documentary to open up the debate around some of the issues the film raises - about children who want to trace their genetic roots and the implications that has for the donor, the child and their wider families.

Dr Pacey said: "I think it's a really important story because it highlights and shows off some of the things we are going to face in the UK at some point.

"People are really worried about how these introductions might pan out - will it be good or bad?

"The viewer probably thinks it's going to be car crash TV, but when you start to watch it you take a positive feeling from it.

It's not threatening, upsetting or even particularly challenging - it's emotive and warm."

Although Dr Pacey agreed straightaway to be involved with the project - having worked with director Jerry Rothwell and producer Hilary Durman on other successful projects previously - he admitted at first he had his reservations.

"We were very concerned about making sure everything was handled sensitively," he said.

"We wanted to make sure we didn't offend anyone - the parents of the donor-conceived children and the children themselves - and, of course, a big thing for me was making sure we didn't put off potential donors, since they are in such drastic short supply."

But his worries were eased after watching some "lovely" footage of the children with their parents - "they truly understood these youngsters' need to know about their origins", he said - and the positive way the meetings between the children and their father played out.

"If people enter the story of this documentary, they will see there is nothing to be frightened of," Dr Pacey said.

"It could have been an emotional mess, but it turned into something really touching and that has reassured me. Of course, we have to be realistic - some children will love their donor, others will not.

"But this film shows donor-conceived children to be incredibly respectful. They're not after money or grand gestures, they just want to find out the simple things - if they like cats or what their favourite colour is.

"And it's really interesting stuff, that again challenges our perceptions of nature versus nurture - how much is in our genes, and how much is down to how we're brought up?"

Dr Pacey, whose role as scientific consultant for the film saw him offer insight and advice on both factual information and artistic presentation, said he hoped this wouldn't be the only talking point it raised.

He and Jerry Rothwell are set to conduct a question and answers session at The Showroom this Friday after the film, and will also be taking it on tour around the country next year hosting a series of debates to run alongside the screenings.

Dr Pacey said: "I hope the film will become a talking point - starting a discussion about the origins of children when they are born in a unusual way.

"We want to use it as a vehicle to get people talking and open their eyes to what is inevitably going to happen in the UK. This film is giving us a heads-up on the issues we're going to face."

- Donor Unknown airs at The Showroom on Friday at 1pm, followed by the Q&A with Dr Pacey and Jerry. It's also being screened the following day at 12.30pm, followed by a Q&A session with Jerry.

For more on this story follow the link: http://www.thestar.co.uk/news/On-fertile-ground-in-hunt.6608856.jp